How good and pleasant it is
when brothers live together in unity!
It is like precious oil poured on the head,
running down on the beard,
running down on Aaron's beard,
down upon the collar of his robes.
It is as if the dew of Hermon
were falling on Mount Zion.
For there the LORD bestows his blessing,
even life forevermore. (Psalm 133 , NIV)
Psalm 133 describes what life can be like when we delight in our relationships with each other. It’s a blessing I hope that we as a General Assembly and as a denomination can enjoy. If so, we’ve got some work to do. At this point, there seem to be three ways that we view some of our fellow PC(USA)-ers.
RESENTMENT: Some of us are like one of my colleagues, with whom I shared a conversation after a rather contentious presbytery meeting. Referring to another of our colleagues, he said that he wanted nothing to do with her. When I reminded him that God established a covenant relationship between us, he replied, “But I don’t want to be in a covenant with her!” Some of us may share that sentiment, even if we don’t express it so boldly.
TOLERANCE: Others of us may look to some groups in our denomination and consider them to be a presence to be tolerated or endured in our fellowship. We’re willing to put up with them, kind of like the way you put up with an annoying rattle in your car that would cost too much to fix.
ACCEPTANCE: Still others may consider ourselves to be enlightened enough to urge “acceptance” of people with different points of view or goals. We don’t understand what makes them tick, but apparently they’re God’s children, too. So we’ll make room for them.
Psalm 133 goes way beyond resentment, tolerance, and even acceptance. The psalmist describes the sense of blessing, nourishment, and richness of lives united by God’s action. It speaks of an enjoyment, and excitement, and a deep desire to be together. Our differences don’t matter nearly as much as the fact that, through the reconciling work of Christ, we belong together. Rather than resent, tolerate, or accept the covenant relationship we have with each other through God’s call, it’s time for us to celebrate it. Yes, even our unity with people who are very different from us, with whom we’d have no relationship at all if we had it our way. God, in his infinite, compassionate wisdom, has seen fit to bring us together. And he did it for a good reason. We haven’t even started to scratch the surface of the possibilities that come from our God-created relationships with each other. Hopefully the San Jose GA will be a place for us to start.