Why Encourage?

Ever since January 18, when God gave Old Union Church its theme verse of 1 Thessalonians 5:11, we have been considering ways to live up to our calling to “encourage one another and build each other up.”  Last month I asked you to consider the ways you have experienced or offered encouragement, as inspiration for how we can grow from what we are already doing.  Next month, I’ll suggest ways that we can learn more about the community around us, so that we can offer encouragement and up-building in ways that will touch their lives.  But before that, I’d like to ask a simple question:

Why do we reach out to our community?

We may provide outreach as a congregation for at least three reasons.

1. RECRUITMENT: We may reach out to our community in order to attract new members to our church.  We want our church to continue as a viable institution, so we need new people to fill our pews and help to pay the bills.  On top of that, it makes us feel better to see new faces on a Sunday morning…especially if they are the faces of young families.  The name of our now-defunct “Church Growth Team” captures essence of this mindset.  It is a selfish motivation for outreach: our focus is on how we can benefit from our outreach efforts.  It has nothing to do with the love for others to which Jesus calls us.  It is about getting other people to take care of us.

2. PITY: We would never call it this, of course.  We give it other names: “taking care of those in need,” or “sharing our blessings with people who have none.”  The PC label for this attitude is paternalism.  When this is our motive for outreach, we give the message that we are better than the people we are helping.  Their lives are such a mess that we can’t imagine how they will get by without us.  We pat ourselves on the back because we have chosen to help them.  This sort of outreach almost always comes with a message: “I’m better than you.  You need me.”  We may be helping those we reach out to, but it generally comes at the cost of a piece of their dignity.

3. SERVICE: When our outreach is based on an attitude of service, we are blind ourselves.  Our actions are motivated by our love for the other, flowing out of the love of Christ.  When reach others as true servants, we give no thought to ourselves: how we may benefit from our service, how we compare to those we serve, or how the other person may be indebted to us because of our service.  It is a self-giving act, following the model of Jesus Christ, who emptied himself out of love (Philippians 2:7).

It is difficult to reach out to others as an act of service, because it requires us to forget about ourselves.  We may gain nothing, or even lose out, from our outreach, but we don’t care.  We care only about that other person, and about the love God has for them.  Outreach-as-service is a high and difficult calling.  With God’s aid, are we up for it?

How to Encourage

It’s time to take the next step.  God has been doing remarkable things lately at Old Union Church, and he has more amazing stuff up his sleeve.

Last summer, we all knew things were declining at our church, but no one wanted to talk about it.  Either we hoped it was just a phase that we’d snap out of, or we were worried that there was nothing we could do.  In the fall, we began to look seriously at the concerns we had about Old Union Church.  We quit pretending they would go away if we ignored them.  But we still didn’t know what to do about it.  In January, God took advantage of our openness to his guidance by giving Old Union a theme verse: “Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are already doing” (1 Thessalonians 5:11).  There’s been a renewed level of excitement and energy in our congregation, and we’ve been thinking, talking, and praying about how this verse can point us into the future.

The next step is to move beyond talking and thinking, and to begin acting.  Our theme verse hints that our future endeavors will be rooted in what we are already doing.  We are already a beacon of encouragement for the discouraged and a place where broken lives can be rebuilt.  How can we become more focused on this mission and enhance our work to follow God’s calling?  Here’s how you can help.  In a spirit of prayerful reflection, write down your answers to the following questions:

1.    In what ways have you been encouraged and built up by the people and ministry of Old Union Church?

2.    What have you done in the past to encourage or build up other people, either individually or as part of a church project?

3.    How have you witnessed others being encouraged and built up?

4.    What can we learn from our mistakes?  What could we have done differently when we failed to encourage and build up people, or even discouraged and tore them down? 

When you’ve answered these questions, you will have a list of ways that Old Union encourages people and builds them up.  Your list may include things from receiving a get-well card to sending Operation Christmas Child boxes.  Please give your list to me or to a session member, preferably before the next session meeting on April 20.  Knowing what we’ve already done will give us clues about what we can start to do.

The session is also looking for people to be part of a team to organize new ventures in encouragement and building up.  We will begin with what we’re calling “small, low-risk experiments:” easy and simple things to try out to see if they work or not.  If they do, we can build on them.  If they don’t, we can learn from them to plan the next experiment.  Please let me know if you’d like to be part of this team.